Could he be the One? ~ Ayomide

L is for the way you look at me

O is for the only one I see

V is very, very extraordinary

E is even more than anyone that you adore can

Love is all that I can give to you

Love is more than just a game for two

Two in love can make it

Take my heart and please don’t break it

Love was made for me and you……

From the lady in love: I love this song and it always makes me think of falling in love 🥰

So here’s the thing; I’ve always dreamed of the ONE.

The ONE who’d make me smile, pamper me with gifts, encourage me when I’m down and pray with me.

The ONE who’s poetic and buzzes my phone with romantic poems at least 3 times a week and shares a dance with me during the weekends. (Lol I guess I watch too many romantic movies😋)

The ONE who speaks in tongue (hehe), hears from God, a devoted child of God. Eloquent in words, fluent in speech, good-looking, perfect smile and very funny.

I’m sure I’m not the only one with this same dream right?


Permit me to say I found the ONE; as I stepped into my favourite mall with the hope of dashing in and out in a jiffy, I bumped into him and like in the movies, as he picked up his items our gaze met and locked as we got up.

He seemed nice, apologized as though it was his fault I wasn’t focused on where I was headed. We exchanged numbers and got talking and even started attending Church together.

I’m in love (or so, I think).

I’m still stuck in that time, when our gaze met. First brush of emotions, brush of feelings, feelings of love.

High on love I guess

We didn’t know each other then, but it felt like we’ve been together for a very long time. I still wonder how one could love another so effortlessly.

True to my dreams, he’s a Poet. Sends me poems when I least expect them. Just as I was typing this, my phone buzzed. Guess what….it’s a poem from the ONE. It goes thus:

“I love you. I totally do with every fibre in my body.

You mean more to me than words can actually describe and though am not a perfect guy (he idnt know he was to, I don’t think I’m deserving of someone so precious.

You have a very good heart that humbles and it humbles me.

Your love for God is astonishing and your desire to know him more is overwhelming and your love for people is wow even when they are non deserving, you still play your part to your very best.

There are better guys, far better guys, more deserving of your attention and time yet you offer it to me witholding nothing.

You make me feel like a giant, as though I am unstoppable if I think it.

☆♡ I LOVE YOU♡♡”

OMG my world started turnioniown after reading this.

Just as I was about to reply, a question dropped in my heart.

Beyond the seemingly perfect outward qualities, is he the one?

Have you taken time out to seek the Master’s view on this?

Well, guess who’s in a dilemma now as emotions have taken over literally.

Yes, you guessed right. If it’s up to me and the emotions I feel right now, he’s definitely the one.

But how do I identify red-flags knowing that I’m clouded with these feelings?

Besides the buzz, how do I know he truly loves me?

How can I tell that he is the one?

So many questions??


The things that love does sha, reading this has given me butterflies 🦋.

Okay people , tell us how you knew he was the one, tell us singles how to silence the noise , stop the butterflies and to make head and not heart decisions, we will be in the comments.

Enjoy your day people

Love & light


13 thoughts on “Could he be the One? ~ Ayomide

  1. This give me hope that I can find the one for me💖. As a single and hopeless romantic, I’m shattered that I still haven’t found the ‘one’. Being single is not for the faint hearted, it’s easy to find anyone to fill the void but to wait patiently for the one you truly deserve is something else. I’ve prayed, waited impatiently and I still haven’t mastered the art of silencing the noise😁 I’m just going about my Father’s business and have resolved that if it happens it happens and if it doesn’t all is still well.


    1. If it doesn’t all is still well. Yes darling total surrender. It’s a hard place to get to but it’s in God we trust.


  2. I’ve learnt that the best thing to do when you’re completely in love is to surrender the relationship to God. The sooner you do so, the better. If you feel anxious about the possibility of God taking it away and not giving it back, then you somewhat already know its not founded on the right principles. If you can both seek God and hear what He says (don’t ask Him to save the relationship), do so. And be ready to obey.

    There have been relationships where God did say yes but they didn’t lead to marriage. So also stay long enough to hear the whole story. Sometimes you have a purpose in each other’s current season but aren’t meant to be romantically involved. And sometimes God legit says yes all the way. But then, then you submit the relationship to your leaders. You don’t just run and go say I do!

    Either way, surrender it to God. If it’s yours, it will come back.


  3. Nice one, Ayomide. What is it with us girls and romance sef🤭🤭??
    Well, I don’t want to tell you what you already know but please follow the same pattern you know God has always spoken to you (complete peace, your pastors, your parents, His Word….) For me, my husband did not come in the complete romantic package my overactive imaginations had dreamed up but I can tell you marrying him is the best decision I ever made. I shut up d voices n looked inwards to d tins dt matters to me n Him, n den I had my answer as I’m sure you will too🙏👍


  4. Thanks dear for your consistency. For me I had peace of mind when I prayed about my husband. I remember speaking to my brother in the Lord that is in love with a lady yesterday. His parents had concerns about the lady in question but he truly loves the girl. I have always advised he prays and look out for signs in the spirit especially the peace test. He didn’t want let go of the girl despite the parents warning. But something profound happened his parents saw that the son can’t let go off the girl. They said you can go ahead. The guy called me to say he’s lost peace of mind about the girl. I told him it’s a sign of something and he told alot of changes in the ladys behaviour and he knows instantly he can’t proceed. It’s important to seek God’s face no matter the emotion you are feeling. I prayed in my singe days that God should by pass my emotions and end any relationship that is not right for me no matter the emotional attachments. God did it for me it always hurt but at the end you will be grateful God interrupted you. Shalom


  5. This is a dilemma that no one wants to be in. The best thing is to pray for the will of God and most importantly to ask God that whatever his will is that he preserves your heart that you will not feel a heart break if parting is necessary.


  6. I was smiling the whole way through! Love is sweet oo😩🥰❤️

    Give it time, make sure there’s accountability, and be honest with God about being all up in your emotions are some of the best things I did when I became somebody’s girlfriend😂

    Also, not being [too] afraid to tell God “If this ain’t from you, end it please.” Or in the words of our Beloved Mama “God bypass my feelings/emotions and do what is right for me”

    That last one takes faith and boldness jorr😂😂


  7. This love distin🥺hmmm
    It’s only GOD that can help us when hearts have already been invested
    Cuz enever easy
    One thing I’ve learnt though?
    Immediately GOD says to let go, let go
    Don’t try to show HIM reasons why
    He sees the heart, He knows best
    Cuz the longer you hold out, the harder it hurts
    Once GOD says let go, my daughter run as fast as you can

    So until we meet the one for us #marriedtoJESUSgeng


  8. Abeg God drag me by the hair if necessary if he is not the one and my emotions are on a journey that you did not send me.

    Dear writer, the solution is to still ask God it will hurt cos your emotions are involved already but it’s what we have to do

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