Happy Vals day again.. – Chris

First of, happy valentines day. πŸ€©πŸ’™


With the amount of times I’ve heard “valentine has come oo, where is your man” today, you’d think I’m the only single person in this lagos.

I was on my way to school this morning and I was just seeing dispatch riders everywhere.

Aah! I thought we were all in this together?? apparently na only me come 😭

Because Some of you have found love. Awww!!

My fellow single ladies in the house, please spoil yourselves today oo. Since all these people in relationships won’t allow us to breathe 🀲🏾 #choking

Today is one of those days that flies if you’re surrounded by love, but seems to go slowly if you’re alone (like me lol). πŸ˜‚

However, this is just a friendly reminder not to get caught up in the allure of this celebration; the feel of love in the air, couples oppressing us everywhere till it seems like na only us no dey relationship, the awwwns and the “God whens”, etc that you forget the whole point of today’s celebration.

Valentine’s day is all about St. Valentine, and by extension love. He was so full of love for everyone that a day was set apart in his name. Wow!!

Today, go out and about with a smile on your face. Be kind to strangers, be courteous; even to that annoying bus driver, especially to that your frustrating boss.πŸ’€

Be nice to everyone. Show love to anyone you come across, especially those who seem to have no one. And while you’re at it, also be thankful for the one who gives you love; the author of love himself. Be thankful to God and love up on him because his love for us was so great that He gave us his only son just to free us from sin. Wow. There’s no greater love than that Sha, so make I use am hold body!

Also, at the risk of sounding like a pessimist, don’t be fooled by everything you see on social , Yes she got flowers, the ring and everything sweet for valentine but tomorrow she might get blows for dinner or something else. Not saying all women are in abusive relationships, or no one has it good but the grass is not always greener on the other side, it is greener, where it is watered.

That said , love is a beautiful thing when it is done right, so don’t rush, Wait, watch and pray for the right partner, pray that you’re the right partner. And be patient.

Happy valentines day once again to everyone reading this. 🌼❀️

I love you, and God loves you. Yes, he does (you’re probably rolling your eyes at this point but stop eeeet. πŸ˜‚ He does).

5 thoughts on “Happy Vals day again.. – Chris

  1. Thank you so much Chris for this post
    I definitely enjoyed Yesterday as a single Lady
    It’s actually my first Valentine being single after 3 years of being in a relationship and dealing with a break up
    I thought it was going to be hard but it wasn’t
    I started of spending time with God
    And writing a Love letter to my Future Husband
    And that prayer Mama prayed yesterday on the podcast is very needed so u I prayed the 1cor 13 for us too.
    And I know that our single season is not for waiting but for being all God wants us to be
    So while we wait for the right person it is important we become that right person so I ask myself
    If God should give me that his Son now I’m I ready to be the right person he has been praying for
    So my fellow singles out there no matter how hard it is
    God still has Sons
    Spend time becoming the right person and in the process you will meet him and he will be all you’ve prayed for and more because God is in the business of exceeding expectations 😊


  2. yes definitely ” God still has sons” am confessing this becos for a minute i thought its either the Godly guys are not yet born or out of circulation…becos of the sons of anarchy all over…


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