Hello wives ,
We have a guest writer today, and I am so excited to be introducing her because I have followed her for a while as I am such a sucker for love, relationships and marriage, so when I came across her page, I knew I had to stalk her because there are people getting this marriage thing right, so without further ado..
Meet Ope Davies , wife , relationship coach and mum to 3 beautiful children. A risk analyst by day, Ope and her husband are also YouTubers with content focused on faith, relationships and marriage, she has been married for 8 years and her goal is to inspire others to enjoy godly and happy marriages.
Go on Ope , do your thing ….
Chocolates, flowers, dinner at an expensive restaurant, sweet smelling perfumes and that is just scratching the surface of what I expect from him…..
I mean I deserve it right?! I deserve to be appreciated and taken care of, I deserve to be spoiled and treated like the Queen that I am. Right?!
Because apparently the unspoken golden rule for Valentine’s is that “wives must be showered with romance and affection all day”.
What most of us wives forget is that a Queen also has a King. I have seen consistently how Valentine’s day is geared towards females. The gifts, the cards, the flowers are all sentiments that resonate with women however, a key secret I unlocked very early on is the fact that men also deserve to be spoiled too.
Not the usual delicacy or compliance when he asks for some extra loving (because even that one we act like it’s just for special occasions) but surprising him by doing the very same things YOU expect him to do.
So Queen I am challenging you to surprise your King. Whether it be a Dinner Date (from your pocket!), Perfume (because I am yet to see a man reject perfume), A new shirt, New shoes, the list is endless.
Thank you very much Ope, I am sure we will get you to write more for us this year (like a public proposal you can’t say no😜).
dear wives let’s not go the boxers route this Val’s day , be creative , be thoughtful, you don’t have to break the bank but love your kings with the same energy that you expect from him.
Let us know what you have planned in the comment section, maybe we will come up with a list and a few gift ideas for you all.
Love and light.