*Mic check, one, two*
Ok, we good.
Hiiiiiiii everyone, Chisom here.
How’s everything going?
Yes! Yes! Yes! We are back! And I am soooo excited.
First, let me say a very big thank you to mama for opening the curtain, wetting the ground and giving us the floor. I do not take it for granted.
Thank you mama!!!
It’s February y’all!!!
And you know that mostly means It’s ‘Awww’ and ‘God when’ season with couples painting everywhere red , quite literally.
I have even been seeing very interesting valentine packages for sale on social. Some costing millions.
Oh, I’m sure your husbae is totally worth that and much more, so please by all means, splurge, throw down, be extra. In fact, in the next blogpost we will be sharing some Valentine gift ideas for the husbands.
But right now, a quick question for the Wifeys.
DO YOU REALLY LOVE HIM THOUGH?
Are you patient with him when he tosses his pants carelessly on that couch for the umpteenth time?
Are you kind with your words even after he drops the ball so bad and is still claiming right?
Are you jealous when the kids prefer his company to yours?
Do you boast to him with ” I told you so” , even without using those exact words?
Are you too proud to apologize to him or to receive correction from him because you bring in more money?
Are you just rude anyhow? Your mouth just runs pra pra pra
Do you always insist it must be done your way?
Do you get irritated by him and any small thing he does?
Oh, the Pandora box. Do you have one? That one where you keep all the wrong he has ever done you for reference purposes?
Are you happy when things seem to be going wrong with that his mother?
Have you given up on him ever acting right?
Have you lost faith in this his big dreams and vision of over seven years that have still not materialized?
Have you lost hope in this marriage?
Are you done or do you still do ?
Before you call that vendor so that you too will post on insta for a few ‘Awwws’ and ‘ God whens’, be sure you are loving that man right just as God said you should- See. 1 Corinthians13: 4-7 .
Our love should not be only words and talk. No, our love must be real. We must show our love by the things we do.
1 John 3:18 ERV
Ok wifey, I’m just going to walk away quietly now so you can can answer those questions above. I’ll be seeing you soon.