*Clears throat*

*Mic check, one, two*

Ok, we good.

Hiiiiiiii everyone, Chisom here.

How’s everything going?

Yes! Yes! Yes! We are back! And I am soooo excited.

First, let me say a very big thank you to mama for opening the curtain, wetting the ground and giving us the floor. I do not take it for granted.
Thank you mama!!!

It’s February y’all!!!

And you know that mostly meansย  It’sย  ‘Awww’ and ‘God when’ season with couples painting everywhere red , quite literally.

I have even been seeing very interesting valentine packages for sale on social. Some costing millions.

Oh, I’m sure your husbae is totally worth that and much more, so please by all means, splurge, throw down, be extra. In fact, in the next blogpost we will be sharing some Valentine gift ideas for the husbands.

But right now, a quick question for the Wifeys.



Are you patient with him when he tosses his pants carelessly on that couch for the umpteenth time?

Are you kind with your words even after he drops the ball so bad and is still claiming right?

Are you jealous when the kids prefer his company to yours?

Do you boast to him with ” I told you so” , even without using those exact words?

Are you too proud to apologize to him or to receive correction from him because you bring in more money?

Are you just rude anyhow? Your mouth just runs pra pra pra

Do you always insist it must be done your way?

Do you get irritated by him and any small thing he does?

Oh, the Pandora box. Do you have one? That one where you keep all the wrong he has ever done you for reference purposes?

Are you happy when things seem to be going wrong with that his mother?

Have you given up on him ever acting right?
Have you lost faith in this his big dreams and vision of over seven years that have still not materialized?
Have you lost hope in this marriage?

Are you done or do you still do ?

Dear Wifey,

Before you call that vendor so that you too will post on insta for a few ‘Awwws’ and ‘ God whens’, be sure you are loving that man right just asย  God said you should- See. 1 Corinthians13: 4-7 .


Our love should not be only words and talk. No, our love must be real. We must show our love by the things we do.
1 John 3:18 ERV

Ok wifey, I’m just going to walk away quietly now so you can can answer those questions above. I’ll be seeing you soon.

Always love,

49 thoughts on “DO YOU STILL DO? – CHISOM

  1. Fun piece Chisom๐Ÿ˜Š really enjoyed all the sacarsm๐Ÿ˜‰ and now to the questions….. Wifies, over to you.
    Ok bye….. drop mic๐ŸŽค


  2. Awww ๐Ÿฅฐ !! Itโ€™s the doing season jor!!! Thank you for giving us something to think about . I also think it is something worth doing at intervals , review your marriage and where you are at and constantly ask yourself โ€œdo you still doโ€? Love eettttt !!!


  3. Absolutely!!! Thanks for sharing @Chisom. Love is an action word…it is in doing. Sometimes, it doesn’t even require the active participation of the recipient. Show love just because…Grace, Lord๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ


  4. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐ŸคฃWalk away quietly to where Ma Chisom? These your questions eee! There is a way they are peppering my kidney!

    If not for this kingdom marriage matter and the Holy Spirit helping us, I dont know if I would still be “doing” again.

    But it is well ooo, I guess I still do! ๐Ÿ˜

    Hold your Jesus in one hand and come join us soon in wifey zone and liberate yourself from “God whens”๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ


  5. Beautiful write up from Chisom๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
    I love your sarcastic style of conveying the msg.
    Oya our wiffies…. over to you. Ok bye ๐Ÿ‘‹


  6. Wow!! Amazing Piece…. I think this is the most important thing to do and achieve this Season of Love. Review, Renew and Rebond. Chisom Weldon!


  7. Hmmm thanks Chisom, Na Holy Spirit go help us ooo cos some of the questions are not yes or no, plenty grey area but we were working towards perfection ๐Ÿ˜€. It is well ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿฅบ


  8. Nice one! loved the pictures/memes.
    I believe it is a good one to help renew our minds.
    As for me, “I still do” to the glory of God.
    God is committed to me so I have chosen to be committed to my husband too.
    I do not look at the “awws” to define my relationship with my spouse. I do the best I can and trust God to be better everyday.


  9. God is helping us , I still do ooo by the grace of God till Jesus comes….
    No checking out to anywhere mennn!๐Ÿ˜„

    Thanks chisom!


  10. This is such a beautiful read. Here is much more fun than I thought. Thank you sis… Glad to be here๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒโคโคโค


  11. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ”ŠChisoooom.

    The last GIF had me giggling ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ It expressed my sentiments exactly. On this one I don’t mind shifting at all… Haha!! Such a great read.

    Mrs Wifey, are you here? ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜ over to you Ma๐ŸŽค๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’


  12. Hmmmm my baby chisooooommmm scattered the tables and then decides to leave๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

    I still do very much sef, this views I took 7yreas ago still pops up in my ears everytime,….God is faithful and he is committed to me so I’m committed to my husbae…. God is helping us both….

    Lemme go and think of thr perfect gift for thr love of my entire life ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ•บ

    This is a beautiful piece Chisom๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ


  13. Wow! What a sarcastic way of conveying your msg Chisom. You’re such a vibe! I love it.
    Ngwanu awon wiffies….over to you o! Do you still do??????? Ok bye๐Ÿ˜‚


  14. Wow! Just wow! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ Not only in this season but every now and then, these questions are to be asked and answered. God bless you Chisom๐Ÿ™ for this writeup though you broke tables ๐Ÿ˜€but for the right reasons ๐Ÿ‘Œ God’s wisdom will never depart from you๐Ÿ™
    Thank you for giving this food for thought, make we all chop belle-full๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ’ž


  15. Chisom!! There is God oooo
    These questions you’re asking me, just makes me cringe! God help me to love my husband the way you love me. Amen!
    Great job on this post… you be wife material!!


  16. I relate to this on a different note because there are some tasks I am doing staring competition with. Will hop back on my commitment ride, thanks for the reminder Chisom


  17. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
    Loved reading every part of it .

    Yeah you scatter tables .. asked is questions and then gently walked away …. eh.mmm

    Ok oh

    But so much to take home from your write up.
    Questions we didn’t think to ask ourselves.

    Brilliantly done โœ”๏ธ


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