Are You A learner? 

Hey ladies

Last week I felt the need to have us kick off our heels, loosen our body shapers, throw back our heads (wigs falling…) and laugh…

and boy did we need it! 

So today let me share with you another secret that’s been helpful for me.

If you are really close to me then you will see me hanging this sign up daily. 

Maybe not physically but Every single day of my life, I wake up ready to learn something. And I learn from everything and everyone.

Heard my husband say this yesterday and I loved it. It just stuck.

See everyday as a classroom; every person as a teacher and every experience as a lesson.

So with some people I learn what to do and with others what not to do. I watch how people do marriage, I read about people doing it God’s way and pitfalls I can avoid. I listen to messages, watch videos. I search for information.


I’m always learning. No one knows it all. At least I don’t pretend to. So I’m always asking questions and searching books sometimes till I’m exhausted 

Its very important to know your learning style though. 

If you are not the type to read books then get videos, audios or real life mentors. Whatever you do don’t do trial and error with your marriage. 

Find someone you can learn from. There are so many positive role models. Once you are ready God will send them your way.

It’s simple really. It’s just the law of nature. 

There’s so much information out there and so many positive role models out there. Forget all the divorces they are showing you marriage still works.   Gloria and Kenneth Copeland

 Dave and Joyce Meyer

 John and Lisa Bevere

 Christine and Nick Caine

I know someone will send me an email now accusing me of not putting up any Nigerian Role models and this is my answer…

Oya go and do your homework. If I mention Nigerian ones which work will you now do? You must go after knowledge   Yourself ladies.

Why struggle trying to pray for your husband when you can learn how easily 

Or your husband is acting up? What to do?  
Too much good stuff out there, I tell you. You would be amazed.

So basically my point? Go out there and get the Bible based good stuff. And while we are on the subject of learning. It’s an amazing month of learning about marriage at DCC 

I’m inviting you personally. Be my guest and say hi after please.  So much happening this month. Will give you full gist later.

Okay ladies. It’s been a Really long day I’m beat. Need sleep. It’s a full day tomorrow.

Tv interview on Hello Nigeria (TV) Time is 12-1pm. It’s on DSTV 259 in case you want to catch it or pre record it and radio interview later on The Woman with Ayo Thompson it is on 99.3 Nigeria Info.

Until next week, Please be intentional about learning.

Love you

Pastor Mildred.

8 thoughts on “Are You A learner? 

  1. Its the second time this week the word intentional is intentinonally coming up… first it was Rev and now you… “Someone” must be speaking to me… its intentional and its definitely for my good. Love love love especially the part about positive changes and attracting what we need to help us… blessed. 😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍😍

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  2. How did i miss this post?
    I am just here for the Meyers, Beveres and Caines………..
    💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
    ah. Thank You JESUS for these ones. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

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  3. Nigerian role models: Bishop David&Faith Oyedepo (Faith Tabernacle, winners). Bishop Feb and Laurie Idahosa (CGMI). Pastors Lingsley and Mildred Okonkwo (Davids Christian Centre)

    Mama in a good student oo, I’ve done my homework and I’m expecting good marks😊 so whats my score?😃

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