Bringing Sexy Back

Hey ladies

I’m sorry this is coming so late but it’s been a really busy day and I finally just got in from midweek service.

So let’s do this.

This week was very different. I had such an undeniable stirring in my heart towards married women that I woke up and immediately wrote a looooooong epistle to the married women at my church DCC. Let me share :

Good morning ladies. To be honest I can barely sleep and that’s because my heart is really burdened. I need to share this with all of us because I believe it concerns us.

There seems to be something becoming rampant today. I’ve been privileged to minister to a lot of married women lately and all I see and hear is how tired they are of being wives. A lot of their husbands have put them in positions where they either want to walk out of the marriage or they grudgingly stay and regret the decision they made to marry him daily.

Now I know a lot of us are not in that place (thank God☝️) but I don’t want us to take lightly what I’m about to say. I need you to listen very carefully please πŸ™πŸΌ

Just because there is peace in our own homes doesn’t mean we should take for granted what is going on because I believe that like Jesus said An enemy has done this Matthew 13:28 so we cannot stand by and be quiet 🀐

Listen ladies, the thing you think is far will soon become near if not handled when it is farΒ and just because it is not our portion (yep! I heard you πŸ™„) doesn’t mean we don’t have a responsibility towards our own dear sisters going through hell.

So why am I saying all this so early in the morning? (Well I couldn’t sleep so all of you too must wake up 😜no I’m kidding πŸ˜‚) let me be serious. I’m saying this because I believe with all my heart that we as CHAYIL women at DCC have a special assignment to Wives all over the nation and the world. We are not just to gather and make ourselves happy. We are SENT. There is a strong MANDATE hovering over us as a ministry

So what are we supposed to do?

1. From now on every single one of us must begin to pray for married women (whether we know them or not) every day in our prayer time. Then once every week for at least 1 hour we pick a time to pray collectively for all wives. Ourselves inclusive.

2. We have a responsibility to get the word out about our meetings. Especially this one coming up on Saturday February the 18th. Initially I was going to treat it as small meeting but God rebuked me yesterday so it’s a full on word and worship meeting. Yes I know the theme and I know a lot of carnal things will be discussed but hey… don’t take it for granted God will be speaking loud and clear in that room. So invite every married woman you know. Think of 5 people only you will bring. That hall must be full. They need to hear this and it won’t be recorded o! So if they don’t come that’s it.

3. We have a responsibility to fund this meeting. Yes ladies you heard me – time to bring out your πŸ‘› πŸ’³ πŸ’° πŸ’΅ πŸ’· πŸ’΄. I don’t care how much you give but every single person must give.It costs money to do ministry. Every year you have been the one receiving now be a blessing to others too.

After all this long post I have written I know that Satan will whisper to you… you have your own issues abeg or what’s your own are you a pastor or minister or keep your money. You that you are looking for more sef…. Then this is for you:

Esther 4:14

For if you remain silent at this time, liberation and rescue will arise for the married women from another place, and you and your husband’s house will be destroyed [since you did not help when you had the chance]. And who knows whether you have attained royalty for such a time as this [and for this very purpose]?”

That’s what keeps me on my toes. God doesn’t need me but it’s a privilege that he chose to use me so don’t take it for granted when God chooses to use you. If you refuse he has 70000 who have not bowed to Baal. He’s never stranded.

Ok ladies let me get out of your space. I love you guys from the bottom of my heart. You make me so proud. Amazing wives and mothers. Being a DCC wife is a calling and you embrace it so well and rep Chayil πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

So I know I’m sharing our in house chat private chat but I’m doing this for you to see how serious the thing about to share with you is.

Same programme 3 fliers. DO NOT MISS IT for anything in the world.

I know the theme is how to be sexy after marriage but sweetie if I know my husband well enough that meeting will not be anything you are thinking. Please come out and invite someone or better still bring someone.

You may just be saving a life. Also next day it’s the men’s turnΒ 

For your own good don’t let him miss it. Invite him. Pray he hears everything said. Then…

Really need to go now darlings. Very early day tomorrow and I’m literally drifting in and out of sleep as I write this.

Please pray. Invite someone. Do your bit.

Be back next week. I’ve got great news for you


pastor Mildred

16 thoughts on “Bringing Sexy Back

  1. Wow. I just realised how selfish I’ve been. I’ve been praying so much for my future marriage that I forgot about the married people I know. Kai. Back to the war room with a new prayer point…

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  2. Really back to the war room…. eye opener and even if we are not married yet we can definitely interceed for all the wives even if we don’t know them and thankfully there is no barrier in the realm of the spirit…. on a joking note, I am allowed to come and usher abi or just sit behind you and fan you, make sure you are ok, ehn mama πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹


  3. Thank you mama, it is so easy to be self absorbed or absorbed with the issues of people close to me… Thank you for not allowing us in chayil DCC be selfish….. thank you for constantly ‘firing’ us up…. We can do this….. yes we can….30MegaWatts=30mins of prayers for Married Women daily…..leggo…..a better way to spend my time while driving to work daily….

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  4. Oh! God bless you ma for this. I am definitely dragging along with me as many married sisters as I can bring. That devil that would try to stop them from coming is a liar! I believe getting the family for Jesus is the fastest way to heal the world.

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  5. When your Mama’s post confirms that you didn’t hear amiss. Thank you Mama.

    But I really think this should be a prayer for all women (single or married), not just married women only. Even our children too, especially the older ones i.e. teens. Can’t count how many young lives are burdened with struggles that started by being innocent spectators of “these things”. The enemy is out to destroy the foundation of society i.e. family and he’s using every weapon in his arsenal to do it. So it’s not late to teach our children to pray for mummy and daddy; and not just their jobs and to buy new cars but that they are at peace. Many times, we sit still in Zion and become comfortable amidst war until it hits closer to home. It breaks my heart just thinking about it – but then again, the Word reassures me that we only have to call and He’ll answer. So let’s keep the calls coming!!!


  6. I know im responding late mama… After that midweek service when u had a meeting with all the women and asking us to write names of phone numbers of married women we know, i went home and felt the stirring in me to pray for married women. Even though im single and trusting God for my man, i will keep praying for all married women.

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