I’m sorry this is coming so late but it’s been a really busy day and I finally just got in from midweek service.
So let’s do this.
This week was very different. I had such an undeniable stirring in my heart towards married women that I woke up and immediately wrote a looooooong epistle to the married women at my church DCC. Let me share :
Good morning ladies. To be honest I can barely sleep and that’s because my heart is really burdened. I need to share this with all of us because I believe it concerns us.
There seems to be something becoming rampant today. I’ve been privileged to minister to a lot of married women lately and all I see and hear is how tired they are of being wives. A lot of their husbands have put them in positions where they either want to walk out of the marriage or they grudgingly stay and regret the decision they made to marry him daily.
Now I know a lot of us are not in that place (thank God☝️) but I don’t want us to take lightly what I’m about to say. I need you to listen very carefully please 🙏🏼
Just because there is peace in our own homes doesn’t mean we should take for granted what is going on because I believe that like Jesus said An enemy has done this Matthew 13:28 so we cannot stand by and be quiet 🤐
Listen ladies, the thing you think is far will soon become near if not handled when it is far and just because it is not our portion (yep! I heard you 🙄) doesn’t mean we don’t have a responsibility towards our own dear sisters going through hell.
So why am I saying all this so early in the morning? (Well I couldn’t sleep so all of you too must wake up 😜no I’m kidding 😂) let me be serious. I’m saying this because I believe with all my heart that we as CHAYIL women at DCC have a special assignment to Wives all over the nation and the world. We are not just to gather and make ourselves happy. We are SENT. There is a strong MANDATE hovering over us as a ministry
So what are we supposed to do?
1. From now on every single one of us must begin to pray for married women (whether we know them or not) every day in our prayer time. Then once every week for at least 1 hour we pick a time to pray collectively for all wives. Ourselves inclusive.
2. We have a responsibility to get the word out about our meetings. Especially this one coming up on Saturday February the 18th. Initially I was going to treat it as small meeting but God rebuked me yesterday so it’s a full on word and worship meeting. Yes I know the theme and I know a lot of carnal things will be discussed but hey… don’t take it for granted God will be speaking loud and clear in that room. So invite every married woman you know. Think of 5 people only you will bring. That hall must be full. They need to hear this and it won’t be recorded o! So if they don’t come that’s it.
3. We have a responsibility to fund this meeting. Yes ladies you heard me – time to bring out your 👛 💳 💰 💵 💷 💴. I don’t care how much you give but every single person must give.It costs money to do ministry. Every year you have been the one receiving now be a blessing to others too.
After all this long post I have written I know that Satan will whisper to you… you have your own issues abeg or what’s your own are you a pastor or minister or keep your money. You that you are looking for more sef…. Then this is for you:
For if you remain silent at this time, liberation and rescue will arise for the married women from another place, and you and your husband’s house will be destroyed [since you did not help when you had the chance]. And who knows whether you have attained royalty for such a time as this [and for this very purpose]?”
That’s what keeps me on my toes. God doesn’t need me but it’s a privilege that he chose to use me so don’t take it for granted when God chooses to use you. If you refuse he has 70000 who have not bowed to Baal. He’s never stranded.
Ok ladies let me get out of your space. I love you guys from the bottom of my heart. You make me so proud. Amazing wives and mothers. Being a DCC wife is a calling and you embrace it so well and rep Chayil 💋💋💋
So I know I’m sharing our in house chat private chat but I’m doing this for you to see how serious the thing about to share with you is.
I know the theme is how to be sexy after marriage but sweetie if I know my husband well enough that meeting will not be anything you are thinking. Please come out and invite someone or better still bring someone.
Really need to go now darlings. Very early day tomorrow and I’m literally drifting in and out of sleep as I write this.
Please pray. Invite someone. Do your bit.
Be back next week. I’ve got great news for you