Okay guys I’m back 🙂
Yeah! Yeah! I know it’s only day 2.
Too early to start celebrating right? Lol!
Okay so here’s this week’s dilemma. Please feel free to leave your “two kobo”. She will appreciate it. Besides you guys give such great advise 😉
“Dear Pastor M
I’m writing to you because I just read your book “JUST US GIRLS” And it totally blessed me. I also need some advice. I noticed that in your book you talked a lot about character and things that are expected of the single christian lady.
I’m 32 years old and I’m single. I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for five years. We met during NYSC. He’s 2 years older than I am. He’s born-again. He runs his mother’s business. He’s very sweet and kind and our relationship really has been good so far. My only issue is that he seems very comfortable with being in a relationship and is not making any moves to take it any further.
I know he wants to marry me and I’m very sure he’s not seeing any one else. he’s never been unfaithful to me. The issue is he’s just very laid back. He’s never actually said the words marriage but when we started the relationship he told me he loved and hoped that one day we would build a family together.
So what I’m asking is should i propose to him? I know him very well. He just might be thinking about it but he will drag his feet till Jesus comes and the truth is I’m not getting any younger. My parents are beginning to ask me what the problem is.
Please what do I do? I’ve checked and I didn’t see anywhere the bible says a lady should not propose.
Ok guys so there you have it. Should she propose? Is it alright As a Christian lady? Is it alright since they are already in a relationship?
Can’t wait to hear from you.
See you tomorrow. Thanks to my cheerleaders squad 😉