Hi people
Okay so it’s the month of March and I’m really excited. I have a really good feeling about March…

Like there’s something really good about to happen for me. God is up to something in March and how am I going to get it? Same way you are going to get yours ‘cos the same God is rich unto all so I’m sure He has some great stuff packaged for you too. So how will we get it? Simple… by MARCHING FORWARD. This is a clear case of “the violent taketh it by force”.

God’s promises to you are YEA and AMEN but you need to war a good warfare with the prophecy. I’m sure a lot of prayers and promises will be going round either by BBM, twitter, Facebook, in church, etc but if you don’t grab yours and settle it by faith, it will be just another month…. Another bbm update or another broadcast….and honestly I refuse to allow March March past me (excuse the pun)

So Speaking of not sitting aroundย  and letting March March past me, I have decided to do two very important things. At least important to me. You see the last six months have been about this beautiful testimony of mine…








it’s been exclusively her ๐Ÿ˜‰ so now I’m getting to the point where pastor m needs to get her groove back. I’m weaning her (partly) and moving on…

I’ve decided to start my weight loss journey again and in order to make sure I do I have decided to start a blog chronicling my journey. The challenges, my victories, my trials, my triumphs, my weight loss secrets and tips. I’m doing this to be more accountable and because I know that there are many women like me who put on a million pounds more than they imagined during the whole pregnancy and breastfeeding process. So this ladies is for us.

The truth is I’m not vain. I usually can’t be bothered by what most women worry their heads about like hair, nails, clothes, makeup, etc but I do have one pet peeve. I hate being fat. I’m sorry I’m not one of those who joke about it, dress it up, carry myself well, etc

I’ve never been one to crack jokes like this


I somehow don’t find these jokes that funny. I’m more likely to wax more philosophical when it comes to fat with things like this instead….


Or with this


Like I said before I’m just not that kind of big girl’s rock kinda girl ‘cos being fat for me comes with some serious health challenges that I need faith to keep at bay. In fact recently I’ve been struggling with walking because my knees just refuse to keep up with all this extra baby weight I have been lugging about.ย 

Interestingly God has helped me achieve this weight loss before so I’m believing that since He cannot change. He will help me do it again…


I actually moved from a UK size 20 to a size 12.


Okay so that’s not really me ๐Ÿ˜€ย  This is me…


after I hit my goal weight..

Then I found out I was pregnant


Now I’m working my way back so that by the next When Women Worship in June I will be able to walk up that stage carrying my complete testimony and my knees will no longer be complaining…

After all when all is said and done it’s still about giving God glory …


I just choose to do it as a size 12 ๐Ÿ˜‰ looking fly…like arm candy…walking beside my pk


rather than like this…


notice the double chin and barely there neck? ๐Ÿ™ thankfully the photographer helped me by not showing the arms ๐Ÿ™‚

Okay, so this is actuallyย  me calling out to all who plan to join me on this journey. If you’ve ever wanted to be fit and healthy then please join me…the more the merrier.

On Monday 3rd of March, I kick off my weight loss journey and start blogging about it on

See you there…


17 thoughts on “MARCHING FORWARD

  1. Kimon kimon kimon!!!
    Cheering you all the way…
    Funny today I was listening to ‘7mistakes married women make’ and you mentioned all the losing weight n PK’s hugging and touching changed…
    I was just laughing at that only to come read this!!!!
    Flying off to the other blog to be first
    Then do you remember one post where u said u r never as fat as u think or so… Esp when u look at ur wedding pictures and recall how u thought you were fat then…
    Momma’Vida, I think this weight loss journey is a lifelong one ooooooooooo
    Speaking of Vida, she’s just gorgeous!!! I was just drooling as u kept changing dps…
    Choi!!! The original Pears/Cussons baby of the year…
    Ok kachifo
    And I hope I’m first!!!
    Side eye to ms giddy :p

  2. Chai mama! See me standing, jogging, running, sit upping (my) dieting etc beside you oh. I love the word ACCOUNTABLE. I am soooo following that blog.

    I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Yes. We will share our testimony in June.

    ‘Vida extra extra extra gorgeous!

  3. Pst M, I enjoy reading ur posts cos’ ur style of writing is not only refreshing. It is real. You would do well as a professional writer.

    All the best in the weight loss programme. Isi 1

  4. Gd morning Pastor M, I do know how you feel. I did recently have a baby. She is going to be six months on the sixth. Yes I added like 40 pounds breastfeeding and all. I just started to wean her too. I look at myself and am really sad… trying not to join the pity party but I miss my flat stomach. I don’t mind losing weight with you. It would be a pleasure. When up from a US size 8 to 12. So u see …… March 3th ….here we come. Please do blog , I want to know how you’re doing. I intend to start by cutting down on my meals.

  5. I’m sooO looking forward to your new blog. Can’t wait oooO, I’m so sure it will inspire me too… gat to shed off some fat..
    Davida is just sooooO gorgeous. Glory be to God. God Bless You Ma

  6. Anyone miss me ? I’m back! Pastor Mildred, let’s do this. I need to rock E’s dresses by November this year when I drop this annoying 10kg ๐Ÿ™‚

  7. Ok, maybe not annoying…seeing that some of it is located in the ‘right’ place ๐Ÿ™‚
    Grateful for it Lord, but I need to drop it nonetheless. And Davida’s first pose ๐Ÿ™‚ Pastor Mildred, you know my thoughts…cute baby!

  8. DAVIDA!!!!!!!

    PM, God’s grace as you maintain two blogs as I am very sure you won’t neglect this one for the other ๐Ÿ˜€

    March will not MARCH past me. Mba!

  9. Just discovered this blog. Really really nice and its also inspiring. Keep it up Pastor M. God bless u.

  10. Wow! Awwwh. Our father is awesome. Davida is sooo beautiful. Faith really captured d beautiful moments.
    I totally believe u’ll get back to size 12. Go mama!

  11. So I’m one of those annoying ppl that can loose weight at d drop of a hat (though I gain just as fast *sniff* *sniff*) so I dnt usually do any extra weight loss work but ve seen mama in action…long walks, aerobics, sit ups etc.. And all I can say is Well done ma, I’m excited to see u come June.
    P.S. Thank u Sis Funmi for all the encouragement!! May God strengthen u on dis journey wit my Mama

  12. I so Loveeeeeeee this blog. WOW have been reading from one post to another and need I say am glued. So Godly, practical, thought-provoking and informative. Just laughed everyone around d house to my room reading d post FUNNY THINGS GIRlS DO. Pst M ur truely a WOW, reading ur blog reassures me that am on the right path, Living the Christ life. Ur a Living wonder, My Mentor from now. Our bundle of Joy is so Cute. * yes she is OUR’s cos I share in this very Joy.* I don’t envy U with UR PK cos I know mine will be Heavenly *godly envy though*winks*. Thank U Ma for this Blog, would definitely meet u One on One soon. Amen. LOVE U MUCH! MUCH!

    1. Awww…. Thank u Zube. I’m sure he’s out there and u will invite me for the wedding soon ๐Ÿ˜‰ can’t wait to meet u. ….and oh yes she definitely belongs to us all ๐Ÿ™‚

  13. Awwww vida looks gorge… love that first pose, she is like 2secs old and see her laughing and striking poses for the camera… (mylookalike). Nne on this journey I am so behind you, I know I have been under a rock but right now I am doing a 1000 jumping jacks and like a zillion situps.. anything to make up for the last 15 or so days. I pledge to come for www looking hot and with my testimony, so help me God! Lol! I see u E.. I see you. Ada nwam *winks*

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