yeah yeah! I know its long overdue and I’ve been dragging my feet about blogging but hey here I am finally. So forgive already…
I know…its ‘cos you missed me right? I missed you guys too . I’m here now and theres lots of good news .
So, the year is starting with a bang for us at just us girls naija (JUGN) and plenty more testimonies on the way
First one here… I’m happy to announce to you all and especially to E’ (now i can rest abi?) that we are now no longer owing wordpress… its so cool to be able to say we are now http://www.justusgirlsnaija.com
oh! what a relief it was such a mouthful to always tell people the blog address http://www.justusgirlsnaija.wordpress.com
and that’s just the first of many things to tell…I know some of you have heard that we had our first just us girls naija meeting for the year.
Okay so I apologize again. I didn’t blog about it earlier but will try and get the pictures and give you the gist of what happened that day but much later
for now let me quickly get this in….
so, there i was trying to get myself together to put to words the message God had given me for JUGN this year.
suddenly I get a BBM of a post someone had seen somewhere and to tell you the truth that’s what really got me out of my relaxation mode …theres too much to do and too much to say that i really shouldn’t be this relaxed at the beginning of a new year …Lord i repent
so this message i got? it left me shocked, angry, confused and sad for the entire
human woman race and since today is Tuesday I didn’t want to waste anymore time
so ….. 2014 justusgirlsnaija blog kicks off with a dilemma tuesday post.
remember best comments get a prize
“I’ve been besties with this girl for 15 plus years….she has been married for 10 yrs….
I’ve been sleeping with her husband behind her back for almost 9yrs....
we have a son & daughter together… they’re 7 & 3….
she knows nothing about this she thinks i got pregnant by one night stands….
her husband sees his kids regularly, pays child support, and pays my rent & utilities….
she is my kids godmother and her kids come over to have play dates….
her husband got divorce papers and is waiting to file them, he wants to be here with me and the kids….
my question is how should we tell her?
should i because i known her first?
should he because they’re married?
or should we all just sit down and talk?
Okay so once you get past the initial shock…try and put your thoughts together and tell me what you think
I’m still speechless….
I promise to come back and do a proper welcome post but I just couldn’t let this pass …